child porn

Latasha - posted on 05/22/2013 ( 4 moms have responded )

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Ok so I posted a few weeks ago that I have a bad feeling that some sexual things were happening between my 9 year old daughter and my new husband. Last night I found an album marked private on my husbands facebook that had been synced from his phone. On there were pictures that he has taken of me and my kids, nothing unusual. However there were 3 pictures on there that I found to be quite disturbing. There were two pictures of some very young girls ( I would guess to be no older than 14 tops) that were of pornographic nature. I could tell that these were porn pictures and not something that was taken from a phone camera, however the age of these girls was a big shock and quite discusting for me. The 3rd picture was one that was of phone camera quality and it was a picture of a vagina- not mine. When my husband got home from work, I pulled this up on his facebook and confronted him about it, and he got really upset ( not violent angry uspet, but a wtf is this kind of upset) and deleted them. At this point, red flags were flaring everwhere and I demanded to see his phone which was where the pics apparently seemed to come from. He handed his phone over no argument, and on that, I found a few downloads of some typical porn, which I'm not nessicarilly opposed to but also found the ones that I seen on facebook along with a few others. He swears up and down he knows nothing of it. He admits to the other normal if you call it porn but the pics of the young girls he denies over and over. I'm not very computer saavy and I don't make a habit of looking on porn sites, but am wondering, before I completely fly the coop and end my marriage over this, if these pics may have been something that popped up unaware to him when he was browsing a site or if these had to be deliberatly and knowingly put on his phone. I am concerned obviously that these girls are so young, but also because I have a 9 year old daughter that could possibly be at a huge risk. I want to get her interviewed to see if anything has happened to her but am not really sure of how to go about it being that I don't have all of the facts on the situation. What should I do???? Any suggestions? Any feeedback helps immensly.

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Dove - posted on 05/22/2013

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Personally I would take my child and run..... I would have gone to the police before confronting him though.

You know the saying 'if it looks like a duck, walks like a duck, and quacks like a duck.... it's probably a duck.'

I'd rather be safe than sorry a million times over when it comes to the well being of my child.

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~♥Little Miss - posted on 06/10/2013

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No. No site would hack into his computer and save files and pictures for him under a private file, AND put them into his phone. This is scary shit. He is lying to you. He is going to erase all evidence. Go to the police and report him. Get your daughter out of the house. This is not a joke. You are seeing all you need for evidence. What more do you need?

Amy - posted on 06/10/2013

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Go with your gut protect your child. Take computer and your daughter to the cops. Then take her to dr. Take her to a counselor she needs someone to talk to. The cops will help you get a safe place to go. Pron don't "just show up" . Please run away from this un safe situation. As a mom and a woman your gut feelings are usually right.
Also if your husband is innocent he should understand your first priority is your daughter and her safty. He should resepect what you have to do. If he don't understand he's not worthy of you and your daughter to be in his life.
Please turn this in and protect your daughter.

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