Megan - posted on 05/25/2011 ( no moms have responded yet )
Okay so we ended up getting custody of the 3 SK's awhile back. my dh always paid her so much a week based off his income for the kids. Now they we have them and there is a little arrearage they are still taking his check and she owes more to hiim (currently) than my dh does her!
I wish they can just "offset," such support.
i also found out through my friend that her 2 kids is living at her own grandparents house (they have temp custody) & found out that the BD (deadbeat when it comes to support) well since the kids live with her grandparents they aren't enforcing any child support and the arrearage is quite large! Around 9k dollars! The system to me is all screwed up.