Ashley - posted on 11/24/2015 ( 5 moms have responded )
Where to start. I have been divorced for 4 years now. I share custody of my 10 year old son with my ex. We do not have a court ordered custody arrangement, and I do not receive child support from him. I made a schedule that he agreed to and we both have him 50% of the time. I have him Mondays and Tuesdays, Dad gets him Wednesdays and Thursdays and then we switch off with the weekends, pretty even right?
Well, whenever the ex seems to be going through something i seem to be the target for his anger and I am so sick of dealing with it. He will be fine for a bit and then I get messages like this :
"your a f*cking joke as usual and no wonder why he wants to live with me"
My son has never expressed the want to live with his dad, My ex is 32, still lives at home and when it is his weekend he is gone half the time and my son is with his grandparents.
I have tried being nice, Ive tried fighting back. I just don't know what to do with this anymore. I didn't take him to court for child support because I didn't want to cause the fights, I kept custody out of court to make it easier on him and show our son that we can still get along. But days like today I just wish he would disappear!
Any advice is much appreciated.