Tammy - posted on 03/12/2015 ( 1 mom has responded )
My 20 year old daughter is in her Junior year at a college 4 hours from home. She has a 16 year old sister whom she misses terribly. The problem is older sister has always treated younger sister like she was her second mother. I've always been a stay at home, so this was never necessary but it was just what happened. Now older daughter is mad because little sis is getting to do all the high school fun stuff and she's missing out on everything. When she comes home she's judgey and rude and causes nothing but trouble with little sis. I don't know what to do. Older daughter is a great person with the biggest heart and loving personality, except with her sis. I know there's jealousy but good gravy she causes so much drama. She's coming home for the summer and I'm a wreak thinking of what it's going to be like! I've talked to her, and her and my husband agree that it's my fault that little sis is over sensitive and myself and little sis need to relax. Little sis is very sensitive, but she hates being judged and ridiculed at every turn. Anyone have similar trouble? What are some suggestions?