Jamies - posted on 02/06/2015 ( 5 moms have responded )
Is going to be a long story,well i'm actually a single mom,but my girl is staying with my ex,10 years ago i had decided to leave my girl with my ex because my ex family can take gd care of her,where else i've to work,And will have little time with her.
After that she had settled down with them,everything for her was well taken care.
I met a man that i felt he might be the right one for me,so i try to open up & accepted him.
Well the ist 2 yrs was fine,my girl is 2yrs old now,is been many yrs she still can't accept him,As i was crash in between,i always have to act like nothing had happened.
I'm not married to him,after 2 yrs with him,then i found out he's married with a daughter but they are not in contact anymore & not divorced As well.
At first i really can't take it but after all so many yrs he's not contacting them & been staying with me for almost 10years. All these yrs actually right inside my heart i'm nt happy at all,he's not working,doing lots of voluntary work,he never askme for money but ist few years i did help him but i can't just go on like that,i stop.
Many things had happened between us but whenever i bring up to quit off our relationship,i'm so soft hearted,just can't let go.
He Don't support me & sometime is nice to me,sometime never even talk to me,i Don't know what should i do.
My girl tells me if the man can't give yiu happiness why you still want to cling on,you should have a better lives & do whatever you want to do.What my girl says to me is true,she says she can see he Don't really love or care about me & why i'm so stupied,i had failed my ist relationship & i thought i had met the right man.
To be frank no doubt i'm with him for 10 years but 7 years we have no sex at all.
He's a very religious man,he tells me cannot have sex,i accepted n respected him.
I had given in so much but in return i Don't know why we are still together.
I'm so sad & confused,i Don't know what should i do,any advise for me please,thank you.