confused, need advice

Valeria - posted on 08/30/2015 ( 3 moms have responded )

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I have an almost 1 year old baby boy, I consider him in a lot of my decisions, but getting back with his father is really hard now. Let me explain. My sons father and I split up before our son was born, then when my son was about 4 months i found out he had a gf. Long story short now he broke up with her bc he wants to be with me and wants a familyk and has been trying very hard to get back with me. In between the period that we had split and he was dating someone else, I was also with someone else (nothing serious) i have seen a change in him trying and doing. Lot of things he had stoppee before. Except this weekend i found naked pictures of his ex from about 3 weeks ago on his phone. He says she sent them to him randomly and he had forgotten they were there. My problem is if i should let it go amd just start a family with our son. Or just try to be happy on our own seperate ways and just co-parent for our son on a peaceful manner.

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Valeria - posted on 09/09/2015

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Thank you ladies. and no I lost trust in him a long time ago. I guess it would never work with the trust being gone

Michelle - posted on 08/30/2015

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My advice would be that there was a reason you split up in the first place and most people don't change that much.
I agree with Kelly that he doesn't really sound like he is wanting to really give it a go.

Kelly - posted on 08/30/2015

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I would think twice before making decisions it sounds like hes not real serious about the relatioship you need to think about your child an your happiness would you be able to trust him

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