CONFUSED.. UM 27 AND MY HUSBAND IS 32,HE WANTS TO START TRYING FOR A SECOND BABY (OUR FIRST IS NOW 20MNTHS)SO THAT HE/SHE COMES BEFORE OUR SON TURNS 3. I HAVE ONLY ONE PROBLEM..WE ARE ON DEBTS BUT TAKING CARE OF OUR SON WELL ENOUGH. I FEEL I WANT TO WAIT ONE MORE YEAR WHEN OUR SON WILL BE 3 YRS SO THAT WE HAVE A 4 YR SPACING AND WORRIED ABOUT OUR DEBTS ...AND WE HAVENT MADE ANY SAVINGS FOR THE FIRST SON'S PRESCHOOL FEES AND OBVIOUSLY HAVENT MADE SAVINGS FOR THE NEXT BABY. ANYONE IN THE SAME SITUATION OR WITH AN ADVICE.., UM SOOO CONFUSED.AM I NOT BEING A GOOD WIFE?

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Amy - posted on 12/18/2012

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I think you need to sit down and talk to your husband about how you feel. If you are stressed over debts now another baby is only going to make the situation worse and could potentially add strains to your marriage. There is a 4 year age difference between my two kids because I wanted to be able to stay out of work under FMLA for the whole time but wanted to make financially we weren't strained.

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