Amy - posted on 02/19/2015 ( 4 moms have responded )
My husband and I don't want to find out the sex of our baby....but we're considering letting our oldest (5 year old daughter), find out because she really wants to know, her 3 year old brother doesn't have much interest in knowing. We thought that maybe we'd let the technician tell her, and she could possibly tell her teacher so that she'd have someone to talk to about it (otherwise that's a huge secret for a little kid). In all honesty, if it were to happen to slip from her, it wouldn't be the end of the world. Just wondering what others thoughts are on this...I don't want to set her up for a huge disappointment if she ends up letting it slip to her dad and I, but I thought it'd be really cool for her to be able to find out since she wants to and because she's the oldest. Ok, thoughts...GO!