contact between half brother and other family members

Natasha - posted on 06/19/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )

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long story short i split up with my violent ex last year and have a 2 year ols daughter by him. he took me to court to get contact and this was under supervsion until he could prove himself. in the mean time he returned back to his former partner who he has a 6 year old son with and they just made my life hell. funny phone calls rubbish thrown outside my house ordering taxis food bullying me on facebook all the lovely stuff, got an injunction out on the pair of them which stopped the abuse, then a few weeks later my exs mother and sisters started up the abuse campion so yet again down the courts for injunction. in between all of this CAFFCASS decided that supervision was unfair and the father should have unsupervised contact. so three unsupervised contacts happen first he demands my daughter to be potty trained and harasses the nursery she goes to, second he brings her back to my mothers in a car with no child seat and seat belt around her neck, final contact he has assualted my daughter by taking blood out of her ear so contact stops. while this is going on i am receiving more abuse from family and friends. right thats the background story to all thats happened. i found out that the father of my daughter is now dead, so no more abuse for my daughter and no more worries thank god i can now live my life. i had a solicitors letter today asking whether i was willing to allow contact to go ahead with my ex partners son and my daughter as the son has thinks higher of my daughter. i have never had any issues with the son and i know he is a child but i am still having issues from the family and friends even though this bloke is dead. i have had to change my phone numbers i am currently waitning to be moved and ive had to remove my daughter from the nursery she was in. the letter does not state that the grandmother or the aunties want any relations with my daughter just this boy, and i dont know what to do i dont want my daughter going there unsupervised as they are very poisionous and i dont want my daughter to become troubled by it all but if i say no and my daughter finds out later on in live and tracks them down would she believe i did all this for her own good. i have also been told that they are posting pictures of my daughter on facebook without my consent is there anything i can legally do to stop them from doing this i dont even have pictures of my daughter on facebook.

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Sarah - posted on 06/19/2012

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If I were you, first off I would go to the courts. I would ask for some kind of help getting any type of arrangement for the boy and your daughter to see each other under your supervision ONLY! If you wait too long, they may try to go in before you and then you will be stuck possibly having to have your daughter with them in their house with no supervision and you never know with that families past what could happen to your daughter! So I suggest you do something first. Second of all, if at all possible, call child protective services if you have any doubts about the half brothers safety and well being. If there is any evidence, then that shoots them down right away as an unhealthy and unsafe place to put your daughter in.
Also, where are they getting the pictures of your daugther? I guess it doesn't matter, because they already have them, but you too can ask the court that none of her pics get released online. I hope this advice helps you and your daugther!

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