Marie - posted on 02/23/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )
I hate my husbands drinking, he'll drink w/o eating and just gets tipsy until he's sloshed. No he doesn't think he has a problem( but broke down one time and said he needed help in his drunken stage a long time ago), no he won't go to AA. We've been married 10 yrs, together 1. Have 2 kids. Several months ago he stated he wanted a divorce, last night, he stated it would take me 30 days to get someone new in the house ( he has a condition) but as far as we know he's healthy. First of all, my kids come first, and thats insane. I know I can be a bore, I'm a little introverted. He says I never mention to do anytjing, but I feel as if he shuts down my ideas, like hiking, snow tubing w. Kiddos. I have a bad memory of what he tells me in our rants/ fights, started keeping journal. He's very opinionated, me I sorta sway here and there, and I try to see both sides of issue. He's called me a windsock before. And he'd totally be against seeing a couples therapist. Where does one decide to call it quits???