Gigi - posted on 12/11/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )
I have a daughter that would cut herself, we started seeing a therapist however she would not talk to him, once I started taking her she stopped cutting, I would have her put scar medicine so she doesn't scar up, she has been doing it everyday never had a problem with it, she would even ask me for the medicine, yesterday she finally spoke to the therapist so I was happy, I didn't ask anything because I told her that its between her and her therapist if she wishes to share with me than I would completely listen to everything she had to say. well we came home and I saw her medicine in the trash, which I was shocked I asked if she had gone thru that whole tube because its a pretty good size and she responded to me in an aggressive manner saying shes not putting that stuff on cuz her therapist told her to stop so she can have those scars to remind her of what she has done. I feel very confused I feel betrayed by the therapist. please I appreciate any comments. am I wrong for having my daughter put the medicine on? should the therapist tell a 13yrold to go against her parents?