coping with being single mother

Deepa - posted on 05/08/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )




I am from india and for last 2 years my life has changed 360 deg since I stumbled upon the fact that my husband has been having a serious illicit relationship. he said sorry cried many many times but all in an attempt to just keep me continue the marriage. and this was not because he cared but because this way he can ensure that all joint properties are intact and he can continue to dominate my life and control all the huge salary that I earn. when all his efforts failed to convince me and I started to see through his lies and could easily detect his deceits, he started to get abusive and humiliating to me and my family. I have been really lucky to have a very supporting family and to be thankfully employed and doing good so far though all this tension has started to take toll on my concentration and work quality. I am also having continuous disturbing sleep in night when I start to think about complexities in the ongoing court case, about how will I bring my daughter up (she has just turned 20, how will I explain her what had happened, whether she will ever have her father etc etc. I joined Yoga which is really helping, I do talk to a few of my friends but inspite of all this at times I am too miserable and inspite of knowing everything I have this foolish willingness to try to pull him back and wipe out all these unhappy events of these 2 years from our lives.

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