Coping with joint custody of my kids

Pamela - posted on 04/12/2014 ( 3 moms have responded )

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I've never blogged but feel desperate to recheck out for support and advice on CA family law their horrible system, unskilled and uncaring mediators and judges who simply do not care. They say they think of the children and that's far from what they are thinking about.

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Pamela - posted on 04/12/2014

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I guess the complaint I'm having is the way the system dictates what's best for the kids. Example- u sit in front of a mediator who could care less that the other
Went drives kids to school late, fails to turn in homework, isn't even home to take kids to school (works 1.5 hrs away from school/home) so has his father or mother or girlfriend get them ready in a.m. Thine gets the, in afternoon. All the while mom lives right down the street and up until now was custodial parent with a majority 60% and since birth has been able to have work schedule around kids being of school age . Oh yea did I mention girlfriend has a suspended license as well as no car! So I guess my complaint would be why in the heck would a mediator who didn't even care to review our case, allow others to take and care for my kids when I their mom live right down the street.

Michelle - posted on 04/12/2014

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I have been doing joint custody and 50/50 shared care for 9 years. It's best for the children since they get to spend equal time with each parent.
I'm with Jodi, I'm not understanding your complaint.

Jodi - posted on 04/12/2014

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But joint custody is what is fair. So I'm not understanding your complaint.

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