Coping with the death of two sons

Michelle - posted on 04/02/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )

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Good morning, I had two son's Paul-John and Johan Roux. Paul-John passed away the 18th August 2010, and Johan passed away the 18 February 2013. I am not coping with the death off both my children at all. I am seeing a councellor but I have still so many anger and unanswered questions??? Please help I was just coping with Paul-John's death, now I am back to square one!!

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Teri - posted on 04/03/2013

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Michelle I am am truly sorry for your loss. I lost only one of my children and can not even imagine your pain. I lost my son at 18 years old to a car accident 9 years ago and still have a hard time from time to time. If I could ever help or just be an ear to listen please let me know

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Michelle - posted on 04/03/2013

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Morning Teri

Thank you for replying yes i am heart broken, just got to "cope" with Paul-John's death, i am devasted by Johan's death. i'm asking myself why God did you have to take my only one left............ so may questions so little answers.......... but thanks for your offer i will keep you in mind for chats....

Faye i have been married three times and i promise you it can not be compared...... yes i do take it hour by hour, A husband you can replace a son/daughter never ever. but thanks for the reply appreciate it.

Faye - posted on 04/03/2013

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While I have not been in your shoes, I would think it is just like a divorce or breakup: you have to take it one day at a time. I am so sorry for your loss.

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