Kim - posted on 12/31/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )
My son is 4 years old. The only times he is away from home is at school or at my parents house... He has a security blanket that he likes to rub (the minky fabric) to fall asleep, he also likes to rub on my arm or hair. Hes just a kid that likes to rub something to fall asleep. -needed to tell that info before getting into the issue.
So about a week ago, he came and got in bed with us in the middle of the night to sleep. I sleep pretty hard, but woke up with his hand down in my panties rubbing my pubic hair.
A couple of nights later, he came back in and I was sleeping on my stomach, I woke up to him having his hand in my panties rubbing in my butt crack... I had a talk with him and told him that was not ok (making sure he knew he wasn't in trouble) and that you don't put your hands on anyone down there. Soooo...it bothered me, but I kinda let it slide because he was kinda sleeping and I thought he was just trying to rub to go back to sleep (like he does my arm and his blanket). Last night, I was sleeping on my stomach, and I felt someone pulling down my underwear. I'll be honest *i thought it was my husband so I just kept sleeping because I wasn't waking up for that*, I was more asleep than not, and I felt the tugging. Finally I felt my son's little cold hands and then his cold lips bend down and kiss my butt. I immediately say up surprised and he hurried up, laid down and started to cry because I caught him? All of this together is very disturbing, especially since last night he was obviously fully awake and aware of what he was doing... I should be concerned right? This can't be normal? What do I do? Take him to his pediatrician? Or a counselor? Please give some advice I'm really worried something is going on. Ps I googled info on sexually molestation behavior and this seems to be the only "symptom/behavior" he has had that I can relate to the info that I find online.