Harley - posted on 02/03/2015 ( 4 moms have responded )
So pretty soon im going to have a little baby boy and the father and I are not together. He wants to be in the childs life which i am VERY thankful for, but I just cant figure out how to get past all the hurtful/selfish things he has said so that i can get along with him. He is refusing to sign any papers for child support (claims I should just ask him when I need money) and is being very very stubborn when it comes to figuring out a visit schedule... In other words, we are going to have to go to court and I worried that everything will go his way... has anyone on here ever seen the courts give the father over half the week with overnights right after the child is born?.. Niether one of us are bad people, infact we are pretty equal as far as money as well, the only difference is he still lives with his parents, and he doesnt have the mechanics to breast feed, do you think courts would really make me give up breast feeding so that he could have the baby?