Tee - posted on 05/05/2009 ( 4 moms have responded )
My husband and I have been together for 6 years and we have been married for almost a year. During our entire relationship this woman has been a pain in the you know what. He has 2 children with her and she is basically out of control. She feels that she can manipulate him and make him do what she wants him to do. They have joing custody and equal parenting time but yet she manages to interfere with his time with his children every week. She leaves horrible text messages and threats all the time. It is getting very time consuming and harrassing. My husband is filing a motion with the court as I am writing this to establish a non interference order as well as to adjust the parenting time and child support. She doesn't know it yet but when she finds out she is going to lose her mind even more.
He has been over paying in child support for 3 years and she knows it. She continues to lie about her income when we all know that she is making way more then she accounts for. What I don't get is if both parties have to maintain the children half of the time and have the same parenting schedule why is it that my husband has to pay an OUTRAGEOUS amount of child support especially when he takes care of his kids. How does the court expect these men to live when all of there money goes to the ex? If I was not in his life he would not be able to maintain his children correctly. I honestly feel that the Court system is one sided and is for the mother's.
I feel that I can say this because I work in the family division of the superior court and I see cases like this every single day. All the women care about is money. They don't even want the father's to have time with their children they just want to collect a paycheck. It is crazy!!!
I know many of you are going to feel different about this situation especially if you are the ex. I have a good husband that takes care of his kids better then he takes care of himself. He would die for his children but yet the court system treats him like a dead beat and the ex continues to manipulate him from day to day. This really sucks to watch him go through this everyday.
Sorry so long.... I just had to vent a little.