Curious questions to other step moms

Texas - posted on 09/07/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )

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I am just curious if any step moms feel like I do. I have 4 step kiddos and 2 bio kiddos; I tell everyone I have 6 kids. Anyway, thier bio mom has been a complete flake sincing divorcing my husband. She moved out of the town her kids live in, got on drugs, flitted in and out of their lives. I came on the scene when she was flitting in and out, she didn't like me very much and the few occassions we were around each other were blah to say the least. She stepped out of their lives for 3 or 4 years, came back for a couple then up and moved with a man without telling her children until she found another man to marry. My oldest is pregnant with our first grandson and now the bio mom thinks she has found her redemption through the grandbaby (she even told this to my stepson!) but here's my question my oldest is now developing a relationship with her mom and quite frankly i'm jealous! I never thought I would be, I have always encouraged them to love their mom (my other 3 really don't talk to her anymore) I just don't want them to get hurt again. Am I being silly? I keep my feelings to myself which is why i'm asking on here haha. Thoughts would be lovely!

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Texas - posted on 09/07/2012

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On re-reading that about my other 3 not really speaking to their mom had nothing to do with me I only recently found out when I told one of them her mother was going to the baby shower i'm throwing. Just wanted to clarify that. I only speak of their mom when they want to talk to me about it. Ok thanks!

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