Blvtv - posted on 12/20/2015 ( 4 moms have responded )
Hi. I just want to get some opinions on this matter. The father of my child and I separated when i was 7 months pregnant due to some Domestic violence. I currently have a DVO against him. I have let him see him a handful of times without me being around but i then decided i needed to Consent order just to be safe as he was acting out and i knew he wasn't taking the medication he had been prescribed due to his aggression. He had also threatened to take off with him multiple times. So i did up a consent form which he didn't want to sign because "Hes on drugs and isn't capable of looking after him" Meanwhile he talks about selling them also and is forever talking about the dodgy people at his house stealing his stuff etc. At the end of the day he has made it obvious it is about me and not my Son by saying things like he isn't going to bother with our son if I'm not in the picture which makes me insanely uncomfortable. He has also claimed he is not the father multiple times. I have put my foot down as he has straight up refused to get a drug test and he is going to take me to court. No mean comments please. I was oblivious to the person he was until after my son was born but I need to do what is in the best interest of my child. I'm now being made out to be the worst person in the world by him and his family and of course self doubt can get the best of us sometimes. Also he refuses to pay child support.
Has anyone had a similar experience or just tell me your thoughts.