Liyah_lee08 - posted on 08/05/2016 ( 5 moms have responded )
OK so I've been in Virginia for about 3 1/2 years. Me and the father of my children was suppose to move in. He chose to stay in TN and wanted me to come back I told him no that I was trying to have and be better for our kids so I gave him the ultimatum to do right or we will co parent he chose to co parent. I was fine with that started dating the same sex and all hell broke lose. My mom hated it and would call and lie and say I pay more attention to my fiance and I wasn't taken care of home. Mind you I had a job and was going to school and all my time went to my loves when I'm home. He came around Valentine's to try one last time to get me to come back. He saw I was happy with my fiance and decided to play me. I had already told him I was uncomfortable with him taking the kids because he was holding a grudge.my mom convinced me to let him take them and to bring them back before school started. When I asked him what was taking so long to bring them back he replied he wasn't they have been gone for almost two years. My oldest daughter now has behavior problems and I can't hold a job to save my life. I went ahead and started a case while I still had jurisdiction here but he was awarded temporary custody do to him doing the same after He received a letter about it. I'm hurting so badly I just need someone who went through the same to help me out point me in the right direction. I'm just confused I took care of this man and his family and he screwed me and took what was apart of me away and I'm broken.please help!