Mom - posted on 09/23/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )
We have just recently finalized our custody arrangement for our daughter, designating joint custody between the two of us and me (her mother), primary residential. Her father now works out of town during the week and for 2-3 days of the four day access period he has with her, he is barely home. He has her step mother pick her up from school while he will generally get home after she's already in bed for the night and then head off to work before she wakes up, so she doesn't see him at all. I think this is wrong but the 'right to first refusal' rule in the order is not specific enough to allow her to come back home. I am stressed and I do not know what to do. Any help or advise would be greatly appreciated.