Terri-Lynn - posted on 06/03/2011 ( no moms have responded yet )
I want to start by saying I am lucky I have a ex who wants to be involved in his sons life. With that out of the way he is the dilemma. We have a court order in place, but since day one I have given him more visitation than we initially agreed upon as I had an absent father and figured if he wanted to be involved then I would go out of my way to make that happen. Including letting his wife do the pick up and drop off to save then gas money. Now I have met a nice man and moved about a hour and 1/2 away so we need to change the every night visitation, but he is not willing. I have moved about six times in my son's short three years due to different circumstances and now he is saying that he wants to go for shared custody with him having full residency when I have been a stay at home mom for my son since day one and his father works full time. Any advice would be wonderful and yes, I am meeting with a lawyer next week.