LA - posted on 01/07/2014 ( 5 moms have responded )
I am a single mom who was never married to the father. I left him when I was 2 1/2 months pregnant. I left because of anger issues, drug use, lack of responsibility and he was getting physical with me. He became very unstable after I left him making many threats to me and my family members. Sent naked pictures of me to my family an friends. I have it all recorded. All paper trials. Harassment for my entire pregnancy. We filed for harassment right before I had my son. I let him come visit when my son was 2 weeks old and then again the next weekend. At this point he hasn't paid a penny. During the second visit he didn't look at my son, change his diaper, or engage in him at all. Then he started screaming at me and my mom and I called the cops because he would not leave. I have paid for all the medical bills with the help of my parents. I worked two jobs my entire pregnancy. Went back to work after 8 weeks maternity leave. Since then, He moved 15 hours away with a girlfriend. Got a lawyer that she was paying for. I found out last week he had been arrested for domestic assault on the girl friend. She stayed with him. But then it happened agin over the holiday. They broke up and he has moved back home which is still 5 hours away. So he beat her up twice within 5 months. she said he is on excessive drugs and to stand my ground... which i was going to do no matter what. My son is now 9 months old. Not a penny from him. He is now taking me to court. What will happen in court?