Kayla - posted on 09/04/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )
I planned on moving out of the state so I let my sons grandmother and aunt on his fathers side spend time with my son for a couple of days I do not allow my sons father to do anything with my son he is a bum and doesnt take care of my son at all.. when I tried to get him back they refused to give him back saying that my sons father has joint custody of my son and that they are not going to let me move out of the state with my son and the cops couldn't help me get him back either my sons father is not on the birth certificate and we have not established paternity I want to know how my sons father and his grandmother could go behind my back and file for joint custody of my son without me knowing I didn't receive any papers in the mail about it? and what can i possibly do to get him back ASAP I've been crying and losing my mind they've been planning and scheming behind my back to try to take my son from me... My sons father is a convicted felon doesn't have his own place just had a new born baby can't keep a job and is on probation now he has robberies, drug cases, dui's, and assault cases with me and a uncle he got into it with before. My sons father has been arrested every year for something or the other ever since I've known him... I live at home with my mom and was moving this friday to go and live with my father in florida since my mother is moving down there to florida I just wanted to leave with my son and start a new life and these people just took him from me..