Taylor - posted on 04/11/2016 ( 28 moms have responded )
I am 17, my ex is 19. He didn't help in any way with my pregnancy, he has only visited my 9 week old daughter 3 times and hasn't seen her or asked about her since she was 2 weeks old. He's never provided for her. I've asked him several times to visit and he says not unless he can take her for a few hours to his mom's (where he lives) which is two hours away. She is breastfed and won't take a bottle, so this isn't possible at this point. He thinks the judge will make me stop breastfeeding. I don't want my daughter around his mom because his whole family smokes marijuana around her nieces baby and finds nothing wrong with it. I don't want her over there at all, and now his mom is pushing him to get half custody to get out of paying child support. I don't know what to do, he does not care about her, he only wants to leave her with his mom while he does what he wants, and since he refuses to visit they are all strangers to her. Do you think the court will allow him anything more than supervised visits?