Whitney - posted on 11/30/2015 ( 9 moms have responded )
Hello, I'm in need of some advice on what I should do about moving in with my fiancé/soon to be husband.
So my custody order states "nobody you are in a romantic relationship or dating can be around your child".. As you can imagine this clause has made it almost impossible to have a relationship but thankfully I met a guy who understood and worked with me. We have been together for 2 1/2 years and are planning on getting married soon and we have a beautiful newborn baby girl together. So thus far I have been living separately from my fiancé with our newborn baby and my 4 year old daughter from a previous marriage. I have 50/50 custody of my 4 year old daughter and her father makes it his life goal to make my life hell.. He does not like my fiancé and refuses to let our daughter around him.. So I'm kind of stuck between a rock and a hard place.. My custody order says I can't have anyone I'm dating around my 4 year old but we are getting married and we have a child together.. Is it possible to never be able to live full time with my soon to be husband because of that clause in our custody order? My fiancé just bought us a 3 bedroom house that's still in the same county as my ex and close to the school where my 4 year old attends. Does the clause get voided if I get married? Please someone help.. I'm at a loss of what to do..