Shyla - posted on 12/02/2015 ( 12 moms have responded )
My baby is now 10 months old. Her biological father has refused to meet her because he believes she is not his. He refused to take a paternity test when she was born. I filed for child support which includes a paternity test. Results should be coming back this week. Her father says he wants to be involved when he is "where he wants to be in life" ((meaning when hes moved out of his parents house (we are both 17), has a car, his license, etc..) I was willing to work something out with him for my daughters sake. If he wanted to be involved I was going to let him. But he has never showed interest other than saying he was going to, he's never asked about her medical health (she was recently diagnosed with tuberous sclerosis complex), etc. I'm wondering if I say no to him being in her life and he files for visitation/custody if I should be worried. He drinks, smokes. etc., refused to take a test because he "didn't want to know if she is his", and so much more.