Christian - posted on 01/17/2016 ( 4 moms have responded )
I'm dating a man who has children from previous relationships. What concerns me is that he doesn't appear to try and see or spend time with one of them even though he's active in the other's. He pays child support to two women and has four children. He sees his children with one mother but doesn't see the child he has with a different mother... There is no legal or custody issues that prevent him from doing so. This troubles me as I further our relationship. I've mentioned to him that I need him to be a good father to ALL his children and he needs to do better with this other child. I have not seen an improvement. I have children and he seems interested in spending time with them but I keep thinking about his own child he doesn't. Is this none of my business? Is this a character flaw I'm choosing to ignore if I continue our relationship? As a single mother I need a good male role model or none at all. I need serious advise. Our relationship otherwise is amazing.