Daughters Father is doing drugs

Ashleigh - posted on 05/22/2015 ( 6 moms have responded )




i have a three year old daughter and me and her dad broke up before she was born and ever since she was born i have done the right thing i have taken her in once a week to see her dad and hes family i have done on the work and that . he dont work and only pays me 16 dollars child support and I have just find out that he is on drugs and i dont now what to do now as i dont want to loss my child and i dont feel safe taking my child near him anymore.

But i have hes mum having a go at me because i told her the visits arent happening anymore . Because as i mum i have to keep her safe and me bring her near him isnt doing that.

so i dont know if i should tell let her and hea family see my baby girl and just not her dad or just say none of them can see her so tjen my babygirl will be safe as its my job to keep her safe


♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 05/22/2015




You get an attorney, you get support and visitation set through the courts. If you have concerns, share them with your attorney and ask that they be addressed legally


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Ashleigh - posted on 05/22/2015




so you would let him see is daugter even tho i could loss you child and hes that one who as choosen to do this and that he hasnt helped at all since she was born and comes and goes when he likes and has a anger problem and doesn't work

Melanie - posted on 05/22/2015




I think you should be their at first when his family is seeing the baby. I would explain to them why you do not feel safe letting him have her by himself. After you feel comfortable that they will do the right thing you can leave her with them for a few hours at a time.

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