Lisa - posted on 11/07/2014 ( 6 moms have responded )
My daughters father has just applied to courts for access however I am unsure of how to approach it. When's daughter was 6 weeks old I had to report him to the police for being in possession of underage pornpgraphy, social services got involved and Her father admitted everything but was let of without charge as they couldn't prove the girl was only 15 even though the very descriptive title of the video said clearly that she was. It then came to light hat whilst he was working as a music tutor he was having some of his pupils send nude photos to themselves, he managed to dispose of the phones as soon as he realised that the police had been unable to find them in their search. After the case was closed, I allowed access for a while but during this time he state he returned our daughter in was unacceptable. She had an episode of sickness bug and admitted he hadn't bathed her after and just wiped her down and returned her still with sick all over her. We also had concerns from the childminder each time he dropped her off from his about the state she wasnin, the childminder even felt the need to call me at work to ask if I wanted her to bath her as the odour of stale urine was unbearable. There have been repeated incidents like this so I stopped access for my daughters sake, however now be has gone through the courts and I am terrified that they will let him have access to her and harm will come to her. Any advice/thoughts please?