dead beat dad

Jacqueline C. - posted on 11/09/2014 ( 4 moms have responded )

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What does a mother do when the father runs in and out her children's life all their life. Emotionally destroying the kids . now the father wants to play dad after he gets someone new pregnant. That's not even cool . besides that he has said in front of my children he never wanted them he actually wanted them to be by someone prettier. OK cool . on top of that during this destructive relationship him and his family has constantly started so much violent mess. They disrespect me in front of my children he has broken in our home called police and said I was dead in my home we had to go to a shelter to get away from all the kaos it was scary and emotionally draining. I can't make myself deal after he let his many girlfriends and family threaten my children call them names etc. Just want to keep him out am I wrong for that

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Jacqueline C. - posted on 11/09/2014

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I have 4 to him I actually tried several times to get pfas every address they were delivered to the family says he doesnt live there . they said he has to get them in his hand . okay I just wentcto talk to legal about this they are just trying to help me move. Because I actually don't know who all is involved especially since they threaten to shoot my two older sons . they are advising not to get a pfa because it may make it worst for us

Jodi - posted on 11/09/2014

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Do you have restraining orders? Custody orders? Any legal orders at all?

You had 8 children to this man?

Jacqueline C. - posted on 11/09/2014

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I have been doing that for years its like it doesn't matter . but I will continue . I'm actually trying to find a safe place to live because he threatened me over this past week I did call and talk to someone in the legal department. They are saying pfa papers may cause a bigger problem because there are so many of his family and friends involved that I really don't know. My older sons have even been shot at. I'm so confused. Just want to run don't have enough money to just go . I have 8children and no support. I don't even have family

Dove - posted on 11/09/2014

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Compile all your evidence (police reports and such) and go to court to keep him away... or have only supervised visitations.

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