MJ - posted on 01/12/2013 ( 5 moms have responded )
This is a long story, but I will try to make it as short as possible. My boyfriend denied that he is the father to my baby the moment I found out and told him. I have tried in all ways possible for him to accept responsibility, but he just kept building stories, horrible stories, even to a point he claimed he is a married man.
I dug into his past, and I found out that he's been married 3 times without a divorce (this I didn't know). Also, I found out that he's addicted to pot.
I am a very stand up person and there are very few things I allow people to make excuse for. I am really cool with the fact that he denied the pregnancy, but I won't be cool with him coming back to contact his kids, whenever he wants. Yes I said kids now, because I found out I am expecting twins. I am financially stable and blessed with a large family who are willing to support me if I hit some hard times.They convinced me to keep the pregnancy. I remember mentioning I don't want babies now, and one of them even volunteered to adopt the kids when they come, My family loves children and growing up, I can't even count how many homeless or less fortunate kids my mom took in. So why must I throw mine away, at the age of 33 and my first pregnancy?
My question is this. How can I stop this guy from ever getting in contact with this children in the future? I already tried to get him sign up his parental rights, but he refused. I haven't spoken to him since after he told me to go look for another father for my children and that I will never be the mother of his children. He's a bad influence when it comes to life in general and I don't want a person like that to be part of my life, nor share a child with. My only thought is to disappear, but I want something legal.
Any help will be appreciated