Deadbeat dad

Lisa - posted on 09/12/2013 ( 7 moms have responded )

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My daughter will be turning 3 in march of 2014 an her deadbeat father has not seen her since she was 11 months he missed her first birthday which made me cry, he missed her first Christmas. All because his girlfriend is jealous an doesn't want him around me. And the girlfriend is his first babies mother who is a deadbeat to all four of her kids including the one they have together.. But the bad part about it is when me an him was together he talked about her so trashy how he would never go back to her and how much of a deadbeat she is with all her kids... And how she stole things from him when they lived together... It was a crazy story!!..but wut do u know he's back with her again... I think she is just jealous he had another baby and she wants him to be like her a DEADBEAT!!!.. Any advice?

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Gena - posted on 09/13/2013

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I would also take him to court.If he doesnt want to see your child its his loss.But i would make him pay for your child. Your daughter will realize what a crappy dad he is when she is older.But its not her fault,neither yours.

Ev - posted on 09/13/2013

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I would not worry frankly about his other woman with those other kids. That is their business. Its time to stop worrying about that and worry about your child and what she needs. I would do as the other ladies have done and take him to court and get that child support but also make sure you get that custody set as well as the visitation just to protect your child and you. That way if he does decide to put his rights into play, he has to follow the rules so to speak too.

Cindy - posted on 09/13/2013

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Take him to court. You cant force him to be with your child but at least make him step up to the plate and help maintain her.

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Cecilia - posted on 09/14/2013

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My advice is to not care what this other woman is up to. Why do you care about her so much? You mentioned your daughter for one sentence and then went on to talking about the girlfriend. Get your priorities strait and worry about you and your daughter. no one else, not even the father. Then you'll do fine.

Theresa - posted on 09/14/2013

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Sweetheart my ex is the same n finally my 11 yr old relized it he hasn't seen them but for 30 min in 2 yrs my new husband is the one who does it all take him to court make him pay for his daughter love her n be sure to hug her daily gl

Lisa - posted on 09/13/2013

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Thank u...that's what everyone keeps telling me to do but I was jus trying to see if may be it would come to his sinces an realize that he needs to step u an be their for her. But I guess not so I'm done trying

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