Deadbeat Sperm Donor!!!

Christina - posted on 06/16/2013 ( 5 moms have responded )

12

0

1

My two kids father 8 and 6, hasn't paid child support since he has been on since 2009 never comes to court for non contempt of court for not paying child support. Now after 3 years of not seeing or contacting them he wants to "see" now after 3 years of no contact. He tries to turn his family against my kids spreading lies of why he doesn't want to see them. Florida Dept of Revenue finally summon him to court after me persistently contacting them 6x's a month for one year. He never cones to court and refuses to pay. He still blame all his three baby mommas of why he keep going to jail still haven't taken responsibility of his actions and he owes over 20,000 with all three baby mommas with back child support. My kids don't know him all this will do is hurt them and confuse the. My kids know my dad as daddy because he has been helping me raise my kids since birth. Why should I allow this deadbeat to see them when it is all a game to him and refuse to get a job to support his kids? Why Fl Dept of Rev gives you the run around??

This conversation has been closed to further comments

5 Comments

View replies by

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 06/17/2013

13,258

21

2015

I quote "Why should I allow this deadbeat to see them"

Answer: BECAUSE THEY ARE HIS CHILDREN.

Your question about why indicates that you are going to withhold his visitation, imo.

Christina - posted on 06/17/2013

12

0

1

I am not withholding my kids from him, he decided to not be in their life because he stated he didn't want to anymore and went three years without seeing or contacting them.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 06/17/2013

13,258

21

2015

Ditto EXACTLY what Michelle stated.

You obviously did not think he was a 'deadbeat' when you chose to have not only ONE but TWO children with the man.

Quit withholding his kids from him. Child support and visitation are two separate things.

And another thing? A 'SPERM DONOR' goes to a clinic, jacks off into a jar, and donates his sperm. Your ex is not a sperm donor, he's the father of your kids, whether you like it or not.

Christina - posted on 06/16/2013

12

0

1

My kids know my dad isn't their real dad but he has been the only positive male figure in their life. Their real father doesn't goes from one to three years without seeing them. Not only does he don't want to see them but he also refuse to pat child support, he only wants to pop in for a week once a year and that's not fair to them when they just want their dad and they ask why he doesn't want to see them anymore. He wasn't a deadbeat when I had them, he turned into that after my daughter turned 1 and refused to get a job since I had my son.

Michelle - posted on 06/16/2013

3,628

8

3245

Child support and visitation are completely different issues and just because he doesn't pay anything doesn't mean he can't see his children.
Your children are old enough to understand that you Dad isn't their Dad and who their real Dad is.
You chose to have children with this "deadbeat" so you need to put up with him for quite a few more years yet.

Join Circle of Moms

Sign up for Circle of Moms and be a part of this community! Membership is just one click away.

Join Circle of Moms