Marvic - posted on 05/24/2016 ( 8 moms have responded )
Hello, I wonder if someone can give me some advice. I have 2 children from a previous marriage. A13 year old boy and a10 year old girl. I also have a 3 year old daughter with my current boyfriend. My son has always been protective of me as a boy would be. But it is now getting too much and too frustrating and causing stress with my boyfriend and myself. My son has gone through the stages of lying and being disrespectful to myself and my boyfriend. Argues with his sister and fights with her. But not the little one.
He is a good boy and good hearted but I have pushed him on to my boyfriend and my boyfriend onto him to try and make peace with each other. But that's not worked. He spend a month with his father last year and things were better when he returned home. It killed me not seeing him everyday and made that clear to both of them in hope that thy nth realize how much I want this to work for us all.
My son does not seem to like my boyfriend and the feeling is mutual with my boyfriend. It has now come to a point were my son is told he cannot live with us anymore. He needs to go live with his dad.
They both have a wall up and I don't know how to break it.
I need help and advice. I do not want my son to move with his dad. I want my children with me.
Please help me