SUSAN - posted on 10/08/2012 ( no moms have responded yet )
Married 25 years. We had three children . My oldest is now 24 just graduated college , middle son killed 4 years ago on ATV, then Georgie my youngest daughter is 12 . Divorced final past Dec. Very ugly divorce I might add. My ex had nervous break down , however, never stopped drinking alcohol he was alcoholic before loss of our son. EX is very bitter now hates me and tells me he is happy and to leave him alone. I am not wanting him back , I do text him regard to our children and thats his response. He just moved in house with his girlfriend three doors down from my home. I am so aggravated by this. I have been dating neighbors exhusband for about 2 years after they divorced. My home is forsale. I did not have anything to do with neighbors divorce. EX only sees our daughter maybe every couple of months hes has very good job hard working continues to drink a lot. He tells me all this was my fault I caused it . Oldest wedding is in this coming December his dad told he couldnt atend my son devastated. Why would he move so close to me?