Kristen - posted on 09/24/2015 ( 5 moms have responded )
I need some advice. My boyfriend and i have been together almost 8 years. And i have been in his son's life since he was about 5 and he's almost 10 now. The reason why i've only known him since he was 5 was because my boyfriends's Ex did not allow him to see him once she knew we got together. Saying that it has been a battle is an understatment. She has been bullying me non stop for the past couple years. I have tried to remain calm and not answer back to any mean texts she's sent me. But Even though shes married and has a baby with her husband she is fixated on trying to ruin our lives. ( she is a step parent to her husbands son ) and also dealing with his ex from what i've heard. I do not push any mother figure onto her son or act as one. We only get to see him every 2nd weekend so we do lots of fun things together and he tells me he loves me and of course i love him, i treat him as if he were my own. Recently, i attended a drop in meet the teacher with my boyfriend which she had forwarded to him in an email and he told her he was attending as well. She did not show up, when he told her we went together she lost it and started calling me names. Not sure if she feels threatned by me but i am NOT trying to overstep my boundaries. She thinks i am trying to push her out of the picture, but i have never assumed any role other than just being myself. Need some opinions. Her son has told her directly that he wants to spend more time with his dad but told my boyfriend she doesnt have to let him see him more. she is only hurting her son.. what should i do?