Charlene - posted on 02/24/2015 ( 2 moms have responded )
I guess I'm on here just trying to get something from anyone! My son's father and I split up this past October (2014) and ever since then he has seen our son ONCE. He travels for work and is gone weeks and even months at a time so I understand not seeing him much because of that. But since we have split he hasn't even offered to help pay for his Daycare $125 a week. He doesn't even call at night to talk about his day or anything. I don't understand how you can say I love my son so much all I ever want is to see him and talk to him yet you can't even call me or even text me to ask how hes doing! I let him see our son once and I met him at a park and the reason for that was because S had anger issues and has threatened me more then once and I wasn't ok with being alone with him! All I want to do is ignore his call when he calls. I don't get it! How can you think its ok to not call and check on him, yet I'm supposed to drop everything I'm doing to make plans with you so you can see him every 2 months! I refuse to put my son through that. But how do I "keep" my son from him that's his father. I'm so lost with all of this. My son knows who daddy is, but I think my son just knows him as always gone and every once in a while he sees or hears from him!, bc when we were together that's how it was because his father traveled for work and was gone SO MUCH! Once he got the traveling job things turned for the worse! I was finding things in the laundry and in his bag (unpacking to do laundry, not snooping) When I would ask him about the things I found "I was holding it for my buddy" is what he would tell me. So i am so scared to even let our son be alone with him. I like to think he wouldn't do anything to him, but how do I know because just like I didn't think he would be so mean to me he proved me wrong. I feel that his friends, drinking, and drugs are more important then his son. I filled for child support but didn't tell him and when he finds out I filled he is going to flip his lid! I just wish he would leave us be and not worry about contacting us because I've had the mother/father thing down since my son was born! He has a 10 year old daughter and he NEVER fought to see her or anything the whole time we were together, but then he is doing this with me. Just don't get it....