Dealing with your ex's gf

Leela - posted on 05/07/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )




So ladies my ex is in a relationship since last year with a woman with 3 kids. I tried reaching out before to both of them but was ignored. My child is 10 and they basically integrated the kids without telling anyone. It has been rough on my child who is the only child for both me and his dad. Suddenly my ex's gf started calling me on my cell phone from a blocked number this week. I've been in meetings every time she calls but she leaves a message with my assistant. Note that I do not have a no to call her back and my ex gave her my no. I asked my ex what's happening but he basically said she just wants to talk to me. I find it weird that she only calls me during working hours (we both work). I would like to be nice to her but both she and my ex have done a lot of things behind my back so I'm being very careful. How do other single moms like me deal with the gfs? Btw she just got divorced so my ex said they're not planning to get married soon,


Michelle - posted on 05/07/2014




You really only need to communicate with your ex, not his GF. Tell your ex that she needs to stop calling you and anything to do with your child just the 2 of you discuss. He can always tell her the outcome of your discussions later but she doesn't have any say in the care of your child.

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