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Rebecca - posted on 12/09/2013

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There are several really good support groups on Google, try to find one they really understand because they have all lost children and other family members. There is no judging, only caring and support.

Nesha - posted on 12/05/2013

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Hi just checking to see how you are doing..hope u are doing ok....I pray for you that God gives you the strength each day...I know it's hard but you have your spouse u can lean on....give me a buzz....

Nesha - posted on 11/29/2013

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I am glad I have a mom to talk too...to feel my pain my hurt...thanks for being there...

Nesha - posted on 11/29/2013

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He is an angel in heaven...he probably met my son and they are friends...not a day goes by I don't miss my son...I have to live with this in my mind and heart each day my son died....I love him so much....only time will tell....

Melanie - posted on 11/29/2013

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Me too, but at the moment I don't really feel like going anywhere. I dreamed of my son last week and my husband woke me up because I was crying. I ended up having a really difficult day that day, but I loved seeing him and talking with him. But in my dream I knew he had passed and that was why I was crying. I miss him so much.

Nesha - posted on 11/28/2013

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That good..I am ..but u lucky to have friends to carry you out....I dreamt my son last nite tell me he would not leave...I mis him....

Melanie - posted on 11/28/2013

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Hi, I am ok. Just been a little preoccupied the last couple of days, which has been good. My friends here this week have been keeping me busy, it has helped with that lonely feeling. How have you been keeping?

Nesha - posted on 11/27/2013

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Hope u have a good evening at your son befriend mom...u go still think of him...but alway remember no one can't take his place...always invite Jesus to go with you,no matter where...

Nesha - posted on 11/27/2013

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Christmas we go be by ourselves..sad I sitting on the family room thinking if my son were here life were been so different..so I Mis him...when the place cold like this he used to come hug me up....life is unfair...

Melanie - posted on 11/27/2013

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Me to, Christmas couldn't come and go fast enough. We have committed to having Christmas dinner at our house, I hope it keeps me occupied enough to keep my mind off my son a little.

Melanie - posted on 11/26/2013

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Hi Nesha, things arre alright today, my friend came over and took me out for the day. It was nice, we had coffee, chatted and looked around the shops. How was your day?

Nesha - posted on 11/26/2013

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Hi this book I got...holding on too hope...A pathway through suffering to the heart of GOD..

Nesha - posted on 11/25/2013

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Baby got injection he cranky so I will chat with you Tomorow ....I does say the divine mercy every day...I pray for you most of all.meet people will help...

Melanie - posted on 11/25/2013

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I am spending wednesday with my son's best friend s mom, I am looking forward to that. And I am going to lunch on Friday with a couple of friends, I am looking forward to that too. It gets me out of the house and I can socialize a little.

Nesha - posted on 11/25/2013

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Monday to Sunday I am home I only goes to church on a Sunday....sometime we go grocery...but I really don't like to go any where...I feel like I leaving him home...my husband does get vexs sometime and say I am boring....

Melanie - posted on 11/25/2013

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I want to go meet my son too. I say this to people and they think I am suicidal. I am not I just want to see him again, hear his voice, his laugh, I just want to know that he is ok and that he is happy.

Nesha - posted on 11/25/2013

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I can ever drive ..my husband goes with the van to work and any where I have to go I have to wait on him....to go...

Nesha - posted on 11/25/2013

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Sometime I feel I am in a dream..but when I go in my son room he is not there...if you have known him you would have love him....

Melanie - posted on 11/25/2013

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Thank you, it is so nice to talk with someone who has experienced the same thing. It is hard to find anything interesting right now. I feel so house bound as we only have one car as well.

Nesha - posted on 11/25/2013

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The baby have me busy..but I pray a lot...and Jesus is the only way you can go....he will help you through this....with friends and family

Nesha - posted on 11/25/2013

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Honestly I don't think so...because I cry every day....but only prays have me going because I want to go to heaven to meet my son...

Nesha - posted on 11/25/2013

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Melanie my best advice to you is get yourself involved with something..because the house will drive you crazy....but I am here for u just leave a message and I will reply....I will pray for you....l

Melanie - posted on 11/25/2013

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I can only imagine, I only know how painful it is now. I keep hoping that it will ease. You know the old saying... time heals all wounds, is it really true?

Nesha - posted on 11/25/2013

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No he died last September...but it feels like just yesterday....the pain will not go...

Melanie - posted on 11/25/2013

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Congratulations on your new baby. I apologize I thought you just lost your son this past september and you were pregnant now. You must be flooded with so many emotions.

Melanie - posted on 11/25/2013

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My son was 14, his birthday is december 28, he would be 15. I am scared of christmas and his birthday coming up. It is like getting a double whammy of grief with no breather in between. When are you expecting your new baby?

Nesha - posted on 11/25/2013

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So sorry, on 11th was my son birthday he was seven years.....how old was your son....we are catholic and we had prays on the forty days the priest said that I will get back a son again....on November 9th I found out that I were pregnant ...how much could a mother a woman who is pregnant who just buried one son is pregnant...I was sick every time I cryed I vomit....I grieved so much....I vomit for five months I went through so much....will my this hurt stop...

Nesha - posted on 11/25/2013

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I am the same my husband works and I am at home too....life unfair.....people must be say I am mad but when a mother loss a child her dreams goes through...

Melanie - posted on 11/25/2013

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I didn't mean to make you cry, I am sorry. I am sorry that we have to go through this at all. I am sure you must be traumatized by your loss too. I never realized the difference between trauma and grief till now.

Melanie - posted on 11/25/2013

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My son had something called AVM. It was like a spiderweb of misformed veins and capillaries in his brain. They said it developed while he was a fetus. In august he had seizures, they thought it was an aneurysm but discovered it was an AVM. He had brain surgury but it couldn't be helped because of the location of it. His brain was so swollen they couldn't put his scalp back on. His brain was 3 quarters stroked. They said he would be a vegetable if somehow he pulled through, but there was nothing more they can do for him. So on the fateful day of august 12, 2013 we took him off life support, and sat with him while he passed, we told him not to be afraid. He cried one tear and passed. It was only minutes.

Melanie - posted on 11/25/2013

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I am not sure if you feel lonely, but I feel so alone. I don't work and my husband does so I am home all alone each day. Of course all I do is think of my son and the memories of him in the childrens hospital keep comong back to haunt me.

Nesha - posted on 11/25/2013

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True...I am afraid to ask how did he pass.....each day I go to the washroom.outside i keep seeing every thing...it have been a year his room in still the same and clothes ..I smell his shoes his clothes just to feel him...The Lord will come soon as I write this tears keep flowing down my eyes because I have and never will be the same again...

Melanie - posted on 11/25/2013

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I miss my son immensely too. I understand your pain and hurt. I watched my son die, and I had to make the choice to take him off life support. Sometimes I feel so guilty for doing it, but deep down I know it was the right choice. It just makes me angry that that choice had to be made. There has been numerous times when I come home and shout "hello" only to get no response. I keep expecting to see him ride up to the house each day on his bike after school, only that doesn't happen anymore either. The pain is huge, sometimes unbearable, when will it get easier? Nobody can really answer that I guess.

Nesha - posted on 11/25/2013

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I used to ask myself how will I get through if my parents died...but life so strange I loss my son....and now each day goes by know I have faith....it so hard for my husband because he loss his mom,dad,grandparents,now his son....

Nesha - posted on 11/25/2013

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I mis my son so much....life will never be the same...i have my faith in Jesus..all i am waiting on him to come...so i can see my son...will anyone understand the pain in my heart to experience the accident...from the 31st to the 14th thinking he will come home....I pray for mercy to fall upon us on the world....

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