M's - posted on 10/29/2015 ( 5 moms have responded )
Hello. I'd like to hear good advice from moms here. I have a 10 months daughter and am thinking of leaving a relationship with a boyfriend to be a single mom. Without no doubt I am a happy mom, and love her for the whole world but I am not a happy wife. The father of the baby is immature, disrespectful, and a liar. His lies and disrespectful attitudes always triggers the argument, sometime gets really bad and even physical. I feel really bad when my daughter has to see and hear it. He and I started our relationship out of love, and I thought he'd be my husband for the rest of my life. but now i cant remember last time he made me happy.
I have a beautiful life with my daughter but he comes and messes me emotionally and takes joy in my life. Also I am worried that those arguments and stresses are going to affect my baby's emotional development. As much as I want to leave this relationship, I am hesitant to make a final decision concerning that my daughter is going to be without a father, concerning financially, concerning the childcare since I go to school at nights. Ive always pictured of a happy family with a husband and children and I am sad that I am about to have to give up that dream. Could anyone help me make decision?
Thank you in advance,