decision time, please have some good advise ,

Juliana - posted on 02/03/2015 ( 5 moms have responded )

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I have a 7year old daughter whom I love , it been one of the toughest 7years , my daughter want to live with her father and id like her to, as im jot wwll myself physically I cany seem to interact with her as she is so energetically high, and do pushy that it gets to me badly to the point tgat I want to take my own life,I know how happy she be to live with her dad , I just want her to succeed un life and grow up with respect as for now she dont lister to me at she chats bk , , she is also classed as my carer, o had an awfull childhood, academically im no good I also suffer from epilepsy wjicj my dauhhter has seen all the fits as it is just me and yer at home, , I want her go and be happy, but im not sure as it would feel like im giving her away

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Gena - posted on 02/04/2015

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Difficult situation if you arent willing to give her up. Cant she stay by him without you going to court and giving custody?

Juliana - posted on 02/04/2015

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Hi Gen her / dad has got her best interest at heart abd wabts rhe best for her future at moment if I don't make a choice for her she'd hate me for it the father wants me to fi coirt for it to finalise it but im nit willling to sign my child up at all

Gena - posted on 02/03/2015

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This is not an easy situation for you..but if its so bad that you get to the point you want to kill yourself,then you need help. Are you in therapy? Would her father be able to provide for her and take good care of her? If the answer is yes,and she wants to move to her dad then i would let her..she doesnt have to stay there forever and you ould get her back when you want. I think if you let her go for awhile it would be good for you to focuse on yourself and your problems.

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