Delete post?

Vicky - posted on 09/24/2013 ( 23 moms have responded )

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How can I delete my post? Nobody seamed to be bothered to help me so I see no need in my story being on here if nobody wants to help. It took a lot of courage to post about my personal experience and I thought this would be a better step for me than seeing a physiatrist but obviously I was wrong and wasted my time!!!

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Vicky - posted on 09/25/2013

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Thanks ladies. My other post is "Perfect pregnancy, crap outcome" it's a much shorter than the original one that I deleted x

Gena - posted on 09/25/2013

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I try my best to respond to posts but sometimes there are issues or questions i just cant answer and i dont want to give bad advice just that i posted something. But as you can see you got alot of responses here:-) Dont feel bad for sharing your personal feelings/situation with strangers...at the end i have no idea who you are,where you are etc:-) Hope your situation is going ok and that you are getting help.Good luck

Christina Leigh - posted on 09/24/2013

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This has nothing to do with how to delete a post but if u tell me your story I can give you my best advice if you'd like sorry no one helped.

Vicky - posted on 09/24/2013

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Pants!!! I dropped my phone and posted the same thing 3times :D TWAT!!!! :D sorry ladies xxx

Dove - posted on 09/24/2013

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Well, you've gotten a lot of responses on this post, so are more likely to get an answer... at least here... if you want to repost. :) ♥

Vicky - posted on 09/24/2013

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Jodi sorry Hun I've only just seen your post. I wanted advice from people that have got the Tshirt so too speak as most of the professionals out there now are probably as young as me and have only just qualified and wouldn't even know what parenthood was if it slapped them in the face :D I believe that the best advice can only be found from people that have had first hand experience on know somebody that has and not what a text book suggests should be the way forward. Plus the ladies on here are more likely to understand fully how I feel and put forward suggestions that would help (unfortunately my mind works better with the most information given for it to make an informed agreement with my heart) Xx

Vicky - posted on 09/24/2013

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Julie that is so true! Sound like you have your hands full tonight! I hope your little one has a fab birthday and I'm sure whatever you decide to go for she will absolutely love it. If I had a little girl all her birthdays would be full of colour and sparkles lol that's if my partner would let me, then again I think he would so long as it wasn't pink :D xx

Julie A - posted on 09/24/2013

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Yea, definitely can't rely on strangers for help. Although, I think it's so cool there's a site like this where they even have a nickname for us SaHmS! Lollollol. I get on a few times a day when I have a minute. Like now, im feeding my 8 mo in my lap and i have a girl who will be 2 on Thursday. That's how I came across this site, I was looking for party ideas an came across this late one night last week. I really do wish you luck and will remember you in my prayers. Everybody carries their cross if ya know what I mean. It's getting through and surviving the best way we can; builds character. Life can be hard, it's just the way you look at it.. That's what I have to tell myself sometimes ..

Vicky - posted on 09/24/2013

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Shawnn your not wrong!! I don't even understand what my partners your get brothers are on about sometimes and it makes me feel like a right oldie lol :D xx

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 09/24/2013

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Nah, Vicki, you're only expressing what several of us feel about the "text speak". My kids don't even use text abbreviations when texting me because they know my response will be "What???" LOL

Scary when we look at something we've written or said and recognize our own elders, though ain't it? LOL

Vicky - posted on 09/24/2013

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Yeah I must admit that is really god damn annoying, once is enough :) and also people that don't make much sense because they type it as if it's a text or how they speak like butting dat instead of that. It makes it hard for people to help them if they can't understand a word that's been typed. WOW I sound like my mom and nan reading that back to myself :D xx

Jodi - posted on 09/24/2013

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Hi Vicki, I don't recall seeing your original post, so I can't say why no-one responded. As Dove said, it may have dropped so far down by the time I was online that I never got to it.

Can I just advise that discussing your personal experiences online with strangers is not a replacement for seeing a psychiatrist or psychologist? I would strongly suggest that if the post was that difficult for you and it distresses you that no-one responded maybe you should consider some counselling. It really can help.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 09/24/2013

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I'm sorry to hear that, Vicky. I don't recall if I saw a post from you or not. I try to be on frequently, but with folks posting the same question multiple (sometimes up to 9 or 10) times, new posts frequently get moved off the first & second pages quickly.

Vicky - posted on 09/24/2013

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I have already removed the post and don't really want to re-type it as it was difficult enough the first time round but thank you anyway Julie.

Shawnn - All I wanted was other mothers opinions and advise on how they would deal, or have dealt with any similar situation to mine.

All I want to do is try and get on with my life but I have nobody I can ask for the help. I came to this site as there are people on her who have posted about similar things and all I wanted was help, I feel low enough as it is every day of my life and now I feel a hole lot worse because I trusted my private life with strangers who couldn't even have a minuet to help me.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 09/24/2013

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Perhaps no one felt that they could give constructive advice. If I can't give constructive advice, I don't comment.

Julie, the comments depend on the post, some invite negative comments!

Julie A - posted on 09/24/2013

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I'm sorry Vicky. I just got on here too a couple of days ago. It seems as though some people are giving more negative comments rather than to help. What was your original question?

Vicky - posted on 09/24/2013

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It was up for 2weeks and other peoples posts that were in the same category and posted the same time as mine have all been replied to :( x

Dove - posted on 09/24/2013

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No problem. :)

I just scrolled back through 5 pages looking for your other post, so I could give input (if I have any) and couldn't find it though. It's possible that it dropped too far away too quickly for anyone who can relate to whatever it is to see it.

I also see that there is a new COM glitch at the moment... unless it's just me. I can't see my alerts, messages, or profile page info... so maybe others are experiencing similar glitches and unable to get to your post.

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