Harley - posted on 01/30/2015 ( 2 moms have responded )
HI, im expecting my first baby in may.. im trying to figure out people experiance with delivery and who they invited to stay in the room?.. My sons father and I are not togeather anymore, but I know it is an important day for him as well as myself, my only problem is that he is CONTANTLY irritating me by the selfish things he says and he is always rubbing what he has in my familys face and I dont want the stress of that on D day... any suggestions of how I can approach him on this topic?.. basically to say he needs to keep his mouth sshut that day or he is going to be waiting in the waiting room... also my mother seems to have invited herself into the delivery room, but im not really that comfortable with soo many people in there I have a doula and my sister who I invited because i know they will support me the entire time so how do I tell my mom no without hurting her feelings??