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Had fought with my hubby last month and he's stop talking to me for few days after that he's start talk to me but said you had changed everything im can't be same with you anymore it's all ur fault deal with ur actions now !!!
I tried to apologise him but my hubby dnt want to talk on this topic anymore he's saying if you want to get me back be patient and be a normal wife
Might be you get back your husband
I'm so depressed don't kno what to do whatever I tries to talk to him or do something special for him he's dont bother to notice me and ignore me
His silence killing me inside I can't react or say anything even I can't say stop punishing me 😒 Im so helpless im be nice with him after fight and ignoring his behaviour but it's hard for me to living with my beloved one like this
I know it was my fault we argue on wrong reasons but I didn't even thought this argued end up like this
I love him unconditionally he's my first and last love but sometimes he's hurt me unintentionally
Please give me any advice how to get his heart win again how to get my husband back

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Sarah - posted on 11/07/2015

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This is not an honest post, as evidenced by your other post where you cut your wrists. You claim one is you and one is your friend. If you want to re post in that context you may. However, I am closing the thread.

Michelle - posted on 11/07/2015

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Well obviously he doesn't love his "wife" so I would file for divorce and move on. Who would want to wait for a man in another country for over 2 years? That's just stupid.

Michelle - posted on 11/07/2015

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So now you have started another thread with a completely different story!
What is the truth and how are we supposed to help you if you're not going to listen to the advice you do get. Just look at your reply here, more excuses for not looking out for yourself.

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It's hard for me to live without him I want to do everything to get him back idc who's fault all I know he's my love and I need to win his heart back 😔

Michelle - posted on 11/07/2015

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For starters, stop blaming yourself. A marriage takes BOTH people to work at it and not blame the other for the marriage not working. Neither of you are solely to blame for the lack of communication so he can't just blame you.
I would suggest marriage counseling but just by what you have written here, I don't think he would be the type of person who would go. He's arrogant and blames others for things going wrong. He thinks that he's above everyone else so wouldn't be open to help.
The only other option would be to leave and take a break at least. I'm not saying go straight for divorce but just time apart so you can both work out what you want from each other and if the other one can give you what you want.
A marriage is give and take and compromise, if one or both of you don't listen to the other then it's not going to work. You are allowed to be selfish and thing about your happiness above his!

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