Wendy - posted on 04/07/2015 ( 2 moms have responded )
Where to begin I am at a total loss on what to do my soon to be step son comes and goes when he wants does not have a job and dropped out of school. If rules are applied he gets very angry even if you try and talk and he don't like what you are saying he leaves maybe for rest of day or for a few days. He has in past destroyed walls doors gets violent. He says he is not loved and he is worthless gonna drive off a bridge. The father does not want to kick him out because he knows he won't make it. Also he raised him and brother for the mother walked out when they were young. The father has two other children from another marriage but has no contact and don't want to that to happen with these. He sleeps all day when he does come home. If you approach him with anything other then what he wants to talk about he says things like "everyone is out to get me it's always all my fault I can't do anything I don't know what to do I think I will go drive off a cliff" He has excuses for everything no matter what.The tension and stress levels are so high, All are uncomfortable. I have read several sites, books and articles but none have helped. This young man has all the control and plays on dads weak side. I don't know what to do can anyone please help me???