Lexi - posted on 11/20/2011 ( 15 moms have responded )
Hey. I'm writing for some emotional support. I just wanted others input to see in others opinions if I did the right thing because we all know how crazy hormones are. Well 2 days ago I broke up with the father of my daughter. I am due Jan 25. I'm sad this had to happen before the holidays but I couldn't stress anymore. My whole pregnancy all we did was fight. My friend told me she saw him walking down the street all messed up. And he did hide the fact he did drugs until I caught he doping out one night. He claims he stopped my intuition tells me otherwise. I told him she saw h'm and he got hysterikocal and went to her work and confronted her. He then called my mom and was rambling to her for an hour about how he wants the baby on the weekend and he demands he be put on the birth certificate.
He works everyday yet is constantly broke. Him or his family has not bought even a headband for the baby. I got all her gear ..clothing...necessities...cradle...crib.
so I'm not sure what he does with hos money but he doesn't pay bills or buy clothes.
He never wanted to help me and made it clear he doesn't have to @support me. He said he will tell the courts he is a dishwasher so he pays the minimum for support. Also he threw the fact he took me out a to eat a few times up in my face to no end and the fact he paid for a pedicure twice.
Did I do the right thing...
If he takes me to court for visits I'm concerned because his house is not clean and he has nothing she would need....advice please