Angela - posted on 02/12/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )
Wondering if anyone's significant other moved for them?
My baby's dad won't move closer to my family or out in the country where I will be happy.
Instead, we are in a city that I hate,
over an hour in either direction from any of our relation.
Over 30 minutes from any outdoors activities that I like to do with the kids.
I am very alone, very miserable, no friends, have to commute over an hour drive to share custody of my 6 year old, and missing all her school activities, etc.
I have to drive every Thursday, Friday, and Monday with my 5 month old baby in the car to share custody of my 6 year old.
He doesn't seem to care about any of that, it's all my problem.
He moved in with me up there for a month.
That was when I was about 6 months pregnant.
Then he moved back out.
He sold off all our stuff to move back to the city.
Said the only way he was helping with baby
was if I moved with him to this horrible city.
I tried it out (been here 3 months), and I just hate it.
Dad says I should just move back home.
I just don't understand why he would rather lose me and the baby than move somewhere that I am happy and closer to my friends and family.