User - posted on 01/22/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )
My 14-year-old step daughter's mother allows the 16-year-old boyfriend to spend the night at their house every weekend. He doesn't live in the same town, so mother drives to the boyfriend's house and picks him up, so he can spend the WEEKEND with her daughter/my step daughter. My husband and I do not agree with this at all, and it is causing a lot of stress on what WAS a good father/daughter relationship..and in turn, it's causing stress on our family. The last two weekends, my step-daughter has asked my husband to go pick up her boyfriend and take them to her mom's house (Mom had to work). He offers to take them bowling or to the movies, but then boyfriend is getting dropped off back at home. So of course, she throws a fit, tells my husband he's weird, shuns him, and treats him horribly. My husband and his ex-wife do not speak which makes it even worse. Not sure what to do. Uggh!