difficult situation..need advice brand new mom

Daysicruzme - posted on 03/13/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )

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My boyfriend is 19 we are madly in love.. and i found out I'm 7weeks pregnant.. this wasn't planned so needless to say we both didn't want this but its been about a few weeks and now I'm starting to be okay with it and i know i would be a good mom and i have a good support system as well. Now my boyfriend is really scared...he says he doesn't want this , which sucks to hear because I'm the one carrying his child.. but he is allowed to feel a certain way and i don't want to take that away from him. He has been really great so far taking me to my doctors appointments and being there for me. and he promises this things will work out..but it really bothers me that he is unhappy ..Do you think he will grow out of it and accept what is happening? we just found out i was pregnant like 2 weeks ago..do you think with time he will ready for this?

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Angel - posted on 03/13/2014

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Hi Daysi-- your boyfriend is probably growing through a whole range of emotions. Primarily fear like you mentioned and hearing that you are going to be responsible for a life is a pretty scary thing.The fact that he is there for you and attending doctor visits is reassuring. You really can't control how happy he is but you can try and be your happiest and healthiest for the baby. Moms go through a range of emotions during pregnancy and I imagine Dads do too.Best of luck to you.

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